An overview of Taken In Hand

What kind of relationship is this?

What are the people like?

  • Taken In Hand individuals are just that: individuals; they are not stereotypical
  • The men – kind and caring, not self-serving narcissists
  • The women – strong and competent, not weak or wimpy doormat types
  • You and me – ordinary people – your neighbour, your sister, the chap you work with, your best friend

How does it feel?

  • Taken In Hand feels liberating
  • Taken In Hand feels natural and right
  • A deep feeling of peacefulness
  • Amazing communication
  • Problems seem easier to solve
  • Improved/intense sexual connection

What do people say about it?

[Constructive comments and criticisms would be very welcome. If this were an outine for a table of contents, what else, if anything, would you like to see on it?]

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Give me intensity or give me death!
Do you have a commanding presence?
Domestic discipline (DD)
On being the servant-leader in my relationship
Could this kind of relationship be for you?
Taken In Hand means different things to different people
Can you be Taken In Hand if you're not submissive?
He who dares, wins
Help! The one I love nowadays rarely wants sex!
Stereotypes

A very good overview

Thanks for your overview, I found it a very good résumé of the different types of relationships we have heard about here.

I felt specially touched by:

The man has the balance of power and control
The man's control is consensual and welcome
The women – strong and competent, not weak or wimpy doormat types

I definitely agree with those three and would not add anything else.

But I would also say, as the site owner has said, that how much control he gets and she gives is what differenciates the different relationships we have heard about. What may work for you, could not do it for me and vice versa.

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