Power connectivity

My wife and I have been married for 25 years. We are soul mates and we have been tightly connected on many different levels. We have always been tight and integrated with each other!

When it comes to being connected, I imagine power cords running between a man and a woman, with each cord being a different aspect of their lives, and each cord having a different and unique plug configuration from the other cords. The woman has the special receptacle that may, or may not, match the plug configuration. When the plug matches the receptacle of that specific area of their life, a power link is made. The more of these matches, the greater the connection between the two. Different cords have different ratings of power. Some cords are big (important) and some are not.

For many (actually, most) of the important cords in our lives (the spiritual area, our value system, work ethic, goals, raising children, the marital partnership, male/female roles, etc.) my wife and I have matching plugs/receptacles. As a result, even before Taken In Hand, we were very connected.

On the other hand, there are some that we don't have. Take recreation and hobbies: I love to fish; she hates the sun and the smelly creatures. She lovescaring for animals. Me – I really love my dog, but the other creatures that we've had through the years for her or the kids (cat, Iguana, Cockatiel, Guinea Pig, etc) were way out of my league. I tolerated them and was tickled that she enjoyed them so much with the children. But, not my cup of tea! But, again, this was a small cord and our connection with the big issues generated the real connecting power in our lives.

When I discovered Taken In Hand well over a year ago, the whole aspect caused me to look at a power cord of mine that I had buried in the recesses of my mind. This power cord was there, but I had rolled it up and stored it very deep in the garage of my mind. In the past, I had always considered this cord (which I now call the Taken In Hand cord) to be a fantasy. I’m not a person who plays games. It was something that I had always wanted, but believed that it was a cord for which there was no real receptacle.

Then, because of this site, and my newfound information that there were couples that dealt with this power cord in a very intimate way, I just had to see if there was ‘connectivity’ with my mate. I talked to her about it.

There was, and the cord (not just the discipline, but the dominance portion) was very big and very powerful. The energy that it generated was incredible and this connection was unlike any other. With the plug in place the dominant portion of my lead position became an exciting part of our lives. I always was in the lead role. It was just that before, I didn't exercise the force behind the position, if you know what I mean.

This newfound power has added an excitement to our lives that continues to surge.

Sam

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Can Relate

Good article Sam. It spoke right to my heart.

It is nice to hear from other couples who have been married for many years. We have been married for 31 years and just found this site a year ago. We can relate to what you were saying because that is how it has been in our marriage for many years. When we found Taken In Hand, our relationship took on a whole new dynamic. I wish that we would have had this many years ago,but happy that we have it now as a part of our marriage.

by Kat on 2005 Jun 5 - 23:08 | login or register to post comments

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