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Taken In Hand readers' forum
Taken In Hand Yahoo group (discussion list)
Taken In Hand personals
A discussion of this site elsewhere on the net
Related books
Related plays
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Articles about how this benefits the relationship
Articles explaining what's in it for the man
Articles exploring what's in it for the woman
Articles about submission
Articles exploring the subject of control
Articles on the subject of old-fashioned traditional relationships
Articles mentioning discipline
Article on DD
Articles on dominance
Article on BDSM
Advice about finding a partner
Advice about how to tell him/her
Articles highlighting intimacy/connection
Articles about obedience
Articles about rape, rape fantasy, being taken, being ravished, rough sex
Articles about the idea of the (human) alpha male
Spanking-related articles
OTK Bratting (Yahoo group)
Ameribritwife
And They Lived Happily Ever After
Angelbrat's blog
Impromptu Lessons on the Road to Manhood as Taught by the Fairer Sex
Randomness
Bonnie Lass: Memoirs of a Newly Submissive Wife
The Feminist Submissive
Burblings
A Creative Spanked Wife
Christian Husband
Christian Husband [dead link?]
Lovesongs for underdogs
Directory of sites about relationships, dating, romance, etc.
Directory of sites about marriage
Beware the confirming bias
Fondly and Firmly - The Gentlemanly Art of Spanking the Woman you Love
Discipline and Love
The key to kinky happiness
Glory
Domestic Discipline and HOH Relationships (MSN group)
Margot's Room (MSN group)
1 Household Discipline (Yahoo group archives)
1 domestic discipline (Yahoo group)
A complete marriage (Yahoo group)
Brat Spankers (Yahoo group)
Christian domestic discipline (yahoo group)
Kent & East Sussex Domestic Discipline (Yahoo group)
Domestic discipline 1 (Yahoo group)
Consensual Correction (Yahoo group)
Couples Using Traditional Lifestyles (Yahoo group - see the early archives)
CollaredNCuffedGroup (a yahoo group)
Connective discipline (Yahoo group)
DD Limited (Yahoo group)
DD Unlimited (Yahoo group)
D_D forum (Yahoo group)
D and H Social (Yahoo group)
Discipline-Harmony (Yahoo group)
DomesticDiscipline2 (Yahoo group)
Held to him (A Yahoo group)
Intimate Discipline (Yahoo group)
Jewish Power Exchange (Yahoo group)
Man of Steel and Velvet (Yahoo group)
Obedient Wives (Yahoo group)
OTKDomesticDiscipline2 (Yahoo group)
OTK group (Yahoo group)
Pat Allen Principles (yahoo group)
Pat Allen Dating (yahoo group)
RavNet (A Yahoo group about ravishment)
Spankville county (Yahoo group)
Stronger marriages (Yahoo group for readers of The Surrendered Wife, by Laura Doyle. N.B. This is not a DD group.)
Stronger marriages for men (Yahoo group for men. N.B. This is not a DD group.)
The Surrendered Wife (tips from Laura Doyle)
The surrendering submissive (Yahoo group)
Traditional marriage (Yahoo group)
Sub-mission (a yahoo group)
The Surrendered Wife (Yahoo group for readers of The Surrendered Wife)
The Generous Wife
The OTK Gang 2
TraditionalDs (a Yahoo group)
Traditional Marriage 2 (Christian)
Home Is His Arms (blog)
Jayda's Musings
The Spencer spanking plan
Loving Domestic Discipline (a blog)
Erotica by Felicia Mansur
How to Be an Unforgettable Woman
The Rules (commentary)
Accept him as he is
Appreciate him
Admire him
The leader
The protector
The provider
Don't wound his sensitive pride
Sympathetic understanding
Inner happiness
The feminine appearance
Feminine manner
Feminine nature
A site for women interested in Fascinating Womanhood
The failure of feminism
Obedient Love Odalisque
Orchidea
Poiesia
Confessions of an English Gentleman (D/s blog)
Sexual Anarchism
Spanking facts and research
Submissive reflections
The Submissive
Wife training
Six Habits of Happily Married Couples
CBMW (Christian articles on manhood and womanhood)
Better Relationships
Peculiar Mutterings
Axfords (corsets)
Kink Aware Professionals
British Spanking
How to make a woman feel like a goddess
C and S Constructions (Excellent bespoke corsets)
Chivalry Today
On servant leadership and gracious submissiveness
The Collar Purple
How to Safely Meet Someone You Met Online in Person
Corsetry resources, history, other articles
Ivy Leaf's Corsetry Questions
Datenschlag (Database of SM information)
The use of flogging
David Deida
Discipline and Desire
Michele Weiner-Davis (home page)
Domestic Spanking and Discipline
Your must haves and can't stands list of non-negotiables
Etica
How to have a world class marriage
Fascinating Womanhood
Handling a difficult man
Fit to be Tied Corsets
Flylady
Hormones Affecting Spanking
Thorney posts (charming, beautifully-written posts from an older couple with a beautiful, vibrant relationship)
Digits and Maryann
The Leather Orchid (articles on dominance and submission)
Lighthearted spanking ideas
Good Pet
Gottman’s Marriage Tips 101
Bethany's Woodshed
Song of Songs (The Song of Solomon)
Understanding Women & “The Rules” For Men
Wipipedia (Kink community encyclopedia)
Mackenzie's musings (A D/s site)
How Do You Identify and Practice Love?
Mama Gena's School of Womanly Arts
Marriage - Relationships
Marriage Builders
The Ties That Bind (New Voices article about Judaism and BDSM)
Arabesque jewelry
Organized Home
Peter Masters (The Control Book, etc.)
Power and Love
Submission of Christian wives to their husbands
Should a wife unconditionally obey her husband?
The headship of men
Chivalry
Romantasy
Sandra Harmon
Cliff Notes
Self creation.com
Society For Human Sexuality
SM Research Report, v1.1
Lust is Jewish
Smart Marriages
Articles on marriage
Account of a Gottman workshop
Spanking Blog
Be safe! (essential reading if you are meeting people on the internet or dabbling in D/s)
Submissive loving
The submissive wife
Submissive Women Speak
Submissive characteristics and the works of Charles Dickens
The Surrendered Wife (home page)
www.academy-inc.com (supplier of quality CP implements)
The Red Lioness
The Spanking Blog
This Big Hush (blog)
Masculinity makes a comeback
Research-based relationship advice
In search of Erotic Intelligence: Reconciling our desire for comfortable domesticity and hot sex
Vicki Blue
Hold the quiche: Manly men are back (article by Amy Doolittle)
Button, Boot and Spatterdash