Why does Taken In Hand make spouses more attracted to each other?

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For the first time in my life, I don't feel restless, trapped, or tempted to have an affair. Why is my wife so much more attractive to me now we have a Taken In Hand relationship?

An easy question

I've got a nice, simple answer for you. You wanted something more from your romantic life. You didn't know what it was, so you assumed that what you wanted could only be found in a different partner. But all along what you -really- wanted were all or some of the aspects of a Taken in Hand relationship. Now that you've got those in your love life, it feels complete. No need to restlessly search for that special something - you have found it already!

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